Where to begin? I’m not sure there is enough room on here to
describe the perfect woman. Likewise, I don’t think there would be
enough here for the perfect guy either. Having stated that, I will do
my best to assist in this project. Wish me luck!

I do believe that we should start off with looks since that’s usually
the first thing we notice in people. This is going to be really hard
to describe since there are sooo many different sizes, shapes, colors
that can be considered “perfect” in my eyes.. I’m going to have to
make it vague for now…

Height-5′ to 5′10 I would like her at eye level or just a little
smaller. Body type-mmmm nice athletic body, not too muscular, but
tone. Could live with someone with a body like Carmen Electra’s in
Meet the Spartans. That is a body..
What’s next? Pretty faces are hard to describe, light colored eyes,
pretty smile, and smooth skin with long hair is a good start. A nice
tanned body is hard to resist as well.

She would have to be athletic; I would think the perfect woman could
hang with the things that I do. Most importantly, she would have to be
understanding, forgiving and believe that honesty and communication is
the key to any successful relationship. She would have to love me for
who I am and accept me for the situation that I am in. However,
knowing this, she would want to be part of my world and know that I
would love her just the same.

Some other things would be that she was drama free, no kids, no crazy
ex’s and be financially secure. We are talking about the “perfect”
woman right? smile. Hope this helps with the project.

.. i am guessing that this “perfect woman” is the one that
made this site or atleast with idea for this so i somehow hope this
will reach the desired destination, wich is this woman who wants to
become someones fantasy girl or a perfect woman. I dont know i am
going trough some rough moments now.. i lost the love of my life so
my ideas, suggestions or opinions may not sound objective.. but i’ll
continue however. I think i accidently found this site ad on syl dot
com and i think i made the first comment under a nick Val heh.. and i
was thinking to myself … why would this woman do this? Why changing
youself, why? when without all this to me you already are a perfect
woman. I accept you as you are i would like to see The Real You the
one who you really are and that would be the person and a woman that
would be the perfect and that is the perfect woman.. dunno i supose
this comment will just get overlooked.. but maybe not i hope you find
someon that will take you as you are, and not trying to make of you
his perfect woman, because at the end that wouldnt be YOU, wouldnt
it? Glad if i could help with “project” in any way. An apologises for
bad grammar.

as people know…women are not my thing…life accident…or
modern interpretation of population control…who knows…my perfect
person…life long friend…isn’t necessarily a representation of
what i want…’cuz what i want i can never have…and i accept
this…but, someone who respects themselves as much as i can myself
is a plus…if you see what you actually are opposed as to what
society can make you…that is an achievement of its own…color and
formation are a formality that we thrive upon but, doesn’t prescribe
to our being…so, that being said, doesn’t matter…achievements
based on academia i look upon as a improvement but, only if you feel
that this is something worth a damn…otherwise, you are not true to
your prospects…an opposite to myself tends to stick out…i like a
person who can challenge me in many ways…sex is a basic but, not in
a literal sense…passion is more resolved and satisfying…to feel
what a person has to explore is more of an eye catcher than what you
look like…passion, yeah that’s key…living and surviving is my
“perfect woman”…whether that is doing and being or breaking these
restraints, i accept…full on and no questions asked…unless
otherwise needed for my sake or theirs…perfection will always be
but, never achieved…and so, my perfection is that…if anyone shall
take me up on this offer…then i grant them full access…and if we
accept am i going to quote mr. v himself…”so it goes,” and so it
shall be…and life shall continue with “perfection” itself…love ya
“perfect woman.”

to me, the perfect woman would be my missing half, and I to
her. spontenaity and impulsiveness are a must, both to remind me of
my own past and to balance out my present withdrawnness. creativity
of any form, as well as a dry wit and a love for kitsch.

physically, I’d prefer someone tall (from 5′6″ to 6′3″) and
definitely curvy. not a stick like the sorority girls I keep seeing
around, and definitely not spherical. someone with a good, cocky
smirk.

I want her to be beautiful, which means

(on the outside):

thin or athletic,

weighs less than 150 lbs

big boobs, like Jennifer Anniston,

nice face, like Jennifer Anniston, Heather Locklear, Molly Ringwald,
Liv Tyler or Serena Altschul,

hair and eye color doesn’t matter as long as she has hair and eyes,

hair is around shoulder length or longer

she isn’t crosseyed

around age 30,

at least 5′ tall,

has no kids, but wants them with me,

is not disabled

(on the inside):

likes to touch, hug, kiss, hold hands; cuddling is ok,

means it when we touch, kiss, hold hands, cuddle, have sex, etc.,

cares about my feelings, my mental and physical health,

likes sex and intimacy with me,

doesn’t cheat on me,

smells ok (doesn’t smell gross; keeps clean),

doesn’t criticize or complain too much, especially about things I
do,

non judgemental,

not overly obsessive about things,

not paranoid,

If she has had a mental illness, she has been treated for it and it
is not noticable,

not too bossy,

doesn’t consider herself right all the time, able to compromise,

stands up for and defends the ones she cares about,

responsible,

junior college grad or higher,

likes movies, video games, stories, fitness, art,

has a positive attitude,

likes people, is a people person, sociable,

doesn’t mind shy or sometimes quiet guys,

likes to talk about a variety of different things, is generally not
at a loss for words,

doesn’t like illegal activity,

doesn’t do drugs and doesn’t like alcohol

doesn’t smoke except maybe a cigar a few times a year

when she gets to know me, she likes what she finds, then

loves me.

Should not be bald or have a super-short (crew cut) hair cut. Skin
should have very few blemishes or scars. Jaw should not be square and
should not have a cleft in her chin.
Slender(but not extremely thin), in good physical shape, athletic.
Breasts that are not very large, but proportional to the size and
shape of her body. Vagina should not have very loose or pendulous
lips. Preferably shaved or trimmed. Naturally grey/green eyes or
contacts are appreciated.

In terms of personality:
I like girls that come across as odd or quirky. I like thinkers and
artistic women. She should always speak her mind on all subjects.
Should be vocal in the bedroom too and sexually unrepressed and
interested and willing to try new things. Should have traveled to
several countries around the world and be interested in travelling to
more. She should enjoy trying new things.

She should be a bit impulsive in her actions and not like to plan
things out too much. She should prefer tea to coffee. She should
enjoy a wide variety of music and not be locked into any one
particular genre. She should like reading and read on different
subject. Should enjoy playing video games. Should not be very into
the bar scene.

“She walks into the room and my heart flutters, butterflies
flap their beautiful wings in both our bellies “Ah, the idealistic
dream of beauty and intelligence, charm and wit, sugar and spice and
everything nice. In my 33rd year of life and I still am unsure of
what my “perfect woman” would be.

It is safe to say that she would have more than a passing interest in
the arts, both visual and literary. That strange mixture of
career-minded and family-oriented woman would surely be present. A
brisk confidence in everything she does, but not to the point of
arrogance.

She would at the very least tolerate my filthy habit of
smoking cigarettes and, preferably, not imbibe in too much alcohol.
An openness to political and theological debate are grand, as long as
neither is taken too seriously.

The mystery of physical attraction is too great to boil down here; it
is not the sum of the parts but rather the whole package that seals
this deal. There must, certainly, be a physical spark between us, but
there are no guiding lights as to what causes this.

My “perfect woman” is all the above and yet she must remain true to
herself. Change is an inevitable part of life, but I’d prefer if she
didn’t do it solely for me.

In order of importance:

Big breasts (I mean BIIIIIG)
Perfect ass (round and firm)
Fantastically Flawless skin
Petite yet Curvy
Shoulder length blonde hair
Has one extremely feminine tattoo on her left hip (preferably a
butterfly or dolphin or fairy)
Girlish giggle (none of that snorting shit)
Cute gap between perfectly white teeth
she wears dresses and skirts, never pants. Short, but modest, and
doesn’t show too much skin to wandering eyes, other than mine. She
is demure in person, but has a slightly dirty sense of humor. Her
sense of humor is embarrassing to her on occasion, for instance, she
loves Adam Sandler movies, but blushes when she laughs at something
too uncouth.
She works in a traditionally feminine industry, a nurse, teacher,
secretary, or retail. She is dedicated to her profession, and is
practical with her money.
She has a strategically placed beauty mark.
She is college educated, with a degree in early childhood education,
nursing, or hospitality.
She has a good relationship with her parents, but does not live in
the same city with them.
She has one or possibly 2 siblings, and maintains a relationship with
them.
She has no children, but looks forward to raising a family at some
point in her life.
She is between 26 and 33, and has had sex with no more than 3 other
men, all of whom she had a monogamous relationship with at the time.
She enjoys watching sports, sitcoms, and movies, but is not too
particular with her taste, and willing to relinquish control of
choices like what to watch, where to eat, and what to drive to her
mate.
She is fit, and takes good care of her body. She does not smoke, but
drinks socially. She likes white wine, champagne, and margaritas.
She has never done drugs, and does not plan to.
She is not religious, but believes in being a good person.
She is sexually open to her mate, and easily orgasmic. She likes
giving and receiving oral sex, anal sex, and intercourse. She likes
being instructed to dress up in the bedroom, and always pays
attention to what her mate might enjoy. She is not opposed to
dressing as a cheerleader, watching porn, or masturbating in front of
him, but would never dream of doing so without being instructed.
She is very devoted and monogamous, but is excited by the idea of
another woman in bed with her and her mate.
Her favorite color is blue, her favorite animals are dolphins, and
she likes dogs. She may have a dog, a golden retriever or a lab and
I see her jogging with him in the morning before she goes to work.
She drives a reliable car, and maintains it well, like a honda civic
or a toyota camry.
She does pilates, and is a regular at her neighborhood Bally’s.
She wears white, pink, or blue matching underwear sets, never black.

The perfect woman would have to be humble at times and a
tower of strength in others.  A great organizer but able to be
comfortable operating in total chaos.  Careful not to purposely hurt
others feelings, but able to speak her mind truthfully without fear
of losing friend/face.

You see, looks come and go.  What makes a perfect woman in my mind is
her strength of character, her kindness and concerns for others in
addition to herself.  And, most importantly her capacity to LOVE,
rather than HATE.

I wish for a woman who loves me, just as I am, with all my weaknesses,
my flaws, my quirks.

A woman who allows me… no, WANTS me to love her, just as she is, with
all her weaknesses, her flaws, and her quirks.

I wish for a woman who completes me: who picks up where I leave off,
who’s strong where I am weak, who is willing to let me fill in where she
is short, who lets me support when she falters.

I wish for a woman who’s strong and balanced. Not for someone who’s
going to hide behind me, or someone who wants to subdue me. Someone who
needs me to be at my prime to stand next to her, in her own best stance,
and who wishes to walk shoulder to shoulder through the difficulties and
joys that life will throw at us.

I wish for someone who loves me more than they dislike me, someone who
is my friend at all times, even when they are critical, who’s my partner
in times when one person alone would crumble, who’s my lover when one
person alone would shiver, who’s good company for on the long walk that
is This Life (obviously, being a good conversationalist is critical,
’cause… you have a whole life time to chat while you enjoy the
stroll).

Yeh.. and on the practical side - someone who does not have a bunch of
baggage.. no kids yet, and certainly no psycho ex’s… um.. not up to
her eyes in debt, or wanting to get us there together… someone who’s
healthy.. ’cause.. while enjoying your life together is grand, it’s even
better if that enjoyment is prolonged via a healthy lifestyle.

Um… and.. in bed… well… all’s fair in love and war?? how about
all’s fair in love making and warefare. Fair enough to mention it.
Should say: I wouldn’t think that having a perfect sex partner is nearly
as important as having a LOVING partner.. just to put things in
perspective.

Of course, I could not marry anyone who is not Masaai like me and my
parents. So, you must also be Masaai.