Rvancuran:
The perfect woman for me is a woman that is HONEST, faithful,
loving, caring, respectful, courtious, compassionate, VERY PASSIONATE,
has a good atittude, has integrity and IS NOT A (GOLDDIGGER) wanting
to help out both financially as well as emotionally when needed and as
often and as much as is needed! NOTICE, I said WANTS to HELP, NOT,
JUST WILLING to help! I would also like her to be attractive both
physically (such as her face and a nice body that is not too fat or
too skinny like skin and bones)she also needs to be beautiful on the
inside which is were it counts the most (Smiling, caring, respectful
and always trying to please her significant other)! I, ALWAYS TRY TO
PRACTICE WHAT I PREACH! I also always try to do the right thing and
treat others the way I want to be treated or the way they want to be
treated, whichever is the better way! I never intentionally hurt
anybody, BUT, sometimes I, as other, do, unintentionally hurts someone
else by what I say or what I do, BUT, it is not intentionally done to
hurt anybody!
February 8th, 2008 at 6:57 pm
Dear Rvancuran, thank you for your participation!
Your Perfect Woman seems very kind, helpful and eager to please the people around her.
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FROM HOW TO BE A GOLD DIGGER:
//www.wikihow.com/Be-a-Gold-Digger
Throughout much of our civilization’s history and in various parts of the world, those with limited options (historically women) have been seeking wealthy partners who can provide for them, prioritizing financial security over other factors, like romance, love, looks, and/or compatibility. The term “gold digger” became popular during the American Gold Rush.
Times have changed, but the concept remains the same. Whether we like it or not, many people still wish (sometimes subconsciously or quietly) to find someone who can be a “breadwinner” for various reasons - so they can stay home to raise children, focus on a dream career that has yet to produce reliable income, or simply for material comfort. But just because you seek financial achievement and generosity in a partner doesn’t mean you can’t fall in love with or deeply appreciate that person for who they are. Over time, you’ll grow to love, respect, and care for the man or woman you chose. As more women become financially successful, less of them are interested in “gold digging”, but male “gold diggers” are becoming more common. If you feel that financial security is the most important factor in choosing a partner to share your life with, here is how to approach the matter with sensibility and charm.
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It could be interesting to concentrate on “wanting to help, not, just willing to help”. I wonder if it’s possible to convince yourself that you genuinely want to do something.
Thank you and good luck,
-Your Perfect Woman
February 9th, 2008 at 8:22 am
My ex-wife, (which I still consider my wife, even though she doesn’t consider us as still being married, just used me to get to America from The Philippines and get her children here as well. Her children aren’t my biological children but I still loved them as my own. Once she got her children here and got her papers submitted for U.S. citizenship, she dumped me in search of a wealthy man that could support not only her and her children, but also her brothers and sisters and mother back in The Philippines. She also wanted to lead the life of a single woman but still have the advantage of having a rich man that would also allow her to come and go at will without having to accountable for where she was going or whom she was going with or when she would be back and by the way, give me some money to spend on whatever I wish to buy! We have now been seperated for 3 years and divorced for 2 and a half years. I still love her very much and I even still carry a picture of her in my wallet. When I met her she lived in a 200 square foot apartment in Manila with her 2 children, 2 brothers, 1 sister and her mother. At the time we met, she told me she had only one child and I didn’t find out about the other 2 until I got back to Manila and walked in the apartment. That’s when she confessed that she lied about how many children she had and introduced me to evrybody. I didn’t care about the lie about how many children she really had because I loved her and would at least finally have a family of my own even if the children weren’t mine, I would still love them and treat them as my own. I bought a house in Manila for us to live in with all the modern ammenities like running water, our own bathroom and so on. She didn’t have that in her apartment. She had to dump water in the toilet to flush it and the toilet didn’t even have a toilet seat. To bath, they had to pump water into a bucket, heat some of the water on the stove to mix with the cold water in the bucket and mix it together, then scoop it over themselves to get wet, wash with the soap and then scoop more water over themselves to rinse off. They also had to share the bathroom with families in four other apartments. There is so much more I could tell you but it would take to long to tell you by email. If your seriously looking for a man to live out the rest of your life with, a man that you can love that will also return the love, you need to meet in person first, before making any changes in yourself to try and please someone that you don’t know and haven’t even met yet. I look forward to hearing from you soon.
February 9th, 2008 at 10:46 am
Dear Rvancuran,
Thank you for sharing your story. I am certain that other men can relate to your experience, whether or not they married someone from another country.
Just to be clear, I am NOT “looking for a man to live out the rest of your life with.” This is not the purpose of this project.
Thanks,
-Your Perfect Woman
February 27th, 2008 at 5:43 pm
WHOA, that dude has some issues. Those mail order brides don’t always meet their orderers needs.
You need not be a chimp, chump. It’s not your fault you are off base with your selection of women..uh wait yes it is! Grow some and then go look for a good woman after you get right with yourself YIPES!
My opinion is not that of this site i am just in a mood to be nice to people, because i don’t hurt anyone intentionally they hurt themselves.
*SMILE* The LA!