Priestfan: votes = 3
My perfect woman is now an Angel. What I will do is let you
know what I miss the most about her and I will leave it up to the
readers to decide.
She could not read my mind but she knew what I was thinking.
When I would be feeling down she could look into my eyes and make me
forget all that ails.
When I would be working outside she would not yell to me from the
door, but come to me and whisper in my ear.
She was the busiest person I knew but she always made time for me.
She is the person that showed me that there is common ground in just
about every difference that we may have had.
When things didn’t go the way that we thought they would she could
show me a different way.
When we went to bed each night so did everything else that happend
that day.
She said what she meant and she meant what she said.
When she would tell me she loved me I would ask God why.
December 27th, 2007 at 9:09 pm
Dear Priestfan, thank you for your participation!
Wow, your Perfect Woman sounds very special. I am sorry for your loss and appreciate your sharing her with us all. I hope everyone can find someone who “could look into my eyes and make me forget all that ails.”
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FROM QUOTE GARDEN:
//www.quotegarden.com/love.html
There is no surprise more magical than the surprise of being loved. It is God’s finger on man’s shoulder. ~Charles Morgan
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This is the second post about losing a loved one (see Drdorman). It makes me both happy and sad. Happy that two people were able to find and love each other deeply, and sad for what must be an unimaginable loss. I wonder if the accepting the risk of losing your partner is part of being truly in love…
Thank you and good luck,
-Your Perfect Woman
December 28th, 2007 at 5:32 pm
PF -”I wonder if the accepting the risk of losing your partner is part of being truly in love…”
I would certainly say so!
Not only a part of being truly in love, but being truly ALIVE! (the former must be met before you can achieve the latter)
This leads me to say - you cannot fully Love if you are not fully Alive.
Dealing with loss is part of living & loving.
After the passing of a particularly dear family member I began to remind myself of how ephemeral we are by transforming the nicotine addict’s credo - “smokum if you got ‘em” - into - Love’em while you got’em.
If you got one, LOVE ‘em.
Cause someday, that will change. Guaranteed.
C’est la vie.
December 28th, 2007 at 5:54 pm
So if you can’t accept the risk of loss, is it still possible to truly love someone?
-Your Perfect Woman
December 28th, 2007 at 6:18 pm
The memories that I have do not compare to what life we lived togeather. I can’t see or touch or smell her anymore, but memories allow me to feel her inside of me. The man that I am today is a direct result of her. It is because of my memories, now that she is gone, that I have absolutely no regrets or anger or bitterness towards life. Who knows where I would be had we never met.
Thank you PhotonNazi, I could not agree with you more.
January 11th, 2008 at 9:16 pm
that was beautiful
February 17th, 2008 at 11:32 am
priestfan: can you give your angel a big kiss for me? But a kiss that will travel back to you and embrace both of you in eternity.