Iktomihitunkala: votes = 2
I have been trying for several weeks now to formulate this expression of perfection. It is not that i am necessarily conflicted, but rather i have two divergent notions that i feel i must blend into a synergetic manifestation of what i ‘expect’ of the perfectness to be achieved in your quest to be my perfect woman. Not a problem that one minds having, more a conundrum of avoiding the pitfalls of tangents related but distant.
So i will try to dispense with one of the aspects and see if i can later blend it into the second. I know a perfect woman. And for me, the best for which i could hope is for you to become her twin.
She embodies every aspect of the perfection i have long desired, wished for, discovered within myself, sometimes ignored before i later realized, and so far forth. Her mind is keen and brilliant, often articulated through opinions and observations that are beyond the pale in terms of their depth of conscious awareness and savvy about the world around her (though she is relatively young in relation to me). Her art is profound, her skills in ethnobotany a necessity, her joy in being alive and surrounded by the spectacular beauty of the world–these challenge her to become more wise and more deeply connected with the universe and the Earth.
Her body is filled with experience of physical mastery of skills sets, both beyond her years and, in many cases, beyond most others. She had previously competed at the university level in cross-country, basketball, and track; she has spent long periods of time trekking in winter desolations, hunting arrowheads and artifacts in the high deserts, and diving from house-sized boulders into large rivers. Over the past few years she has worked for my festival production company, able to jump from building large event infrastructure to cajoling participation from children, and in between helping craft spectacles, all with grace and wonder.
I find her incredibly attractive and luscious. Almost 5′10″ of muscled grace weighing 54kg or 8.5 stones, toned by physical fitness and strength training mixed with the best (Earth wise and friendly) eating habits of a knowledgeable vegetarian. Naked she is stunning, with naturally perfect body hair in all the right places, without need of attention, the darkness of it contrasting so well with her truly mediterranean-olive skin tones. The curve of her breast fits fully into my large hands, her areolea capable of soft puffy states as well as contracting into a nice fingertip size nipple. I love yonis and vulvas and hers are magnificent: labia majora with long hairs to twirl; labia minora with soft hues of pink ginger and darker purple.
This gets us into the second part. For years i have collected images of perfect women. I was an ocean lifeguard on the rich beaches Los Angeles for many years, and was always aware of the contours and constructs of beauty, both as a cultural dynamic and within my own personal aesthetics. What i have noticed is that my selections have shifted dramatically over the years, and are now filled with images very much similar to my dearest sweet friend. I look for the long dark black hair, the chiseled muscular (but lean and gracefilled) body, glutes that can be held perfectly by my two hands, and so forth. I look for the proportion of long legs almost but not quite equalled by the length of the long torso. I desire her natural smells, and her makeup free face. I look forward to every moment i get to spend with her, which is far too rare.
Thus i can only request that you become the twin of my perfect woman. And i really believe in this two are vastly superior to one of any other.
December 20th, 2007 at 10:00 pm
Dear Iktomihitunkala, thank you for your participation!
Your Perfect Woman sounds like a fascinating mix of lovely, wise, sexy, and giving. Hmm… a twin.
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FROM WHY ARE IDENTICAL TWINS DIFFERENT:
//multiples.about.com/od/funfacts/a/differenttwins.htm
The stereotype of identical twins is that they are exactly alike: they look alike, they dress in matching outfits, they share the same likes and disklikes. Parents of identical twins know differently, however. Despite their shared genetic component, identical multiples are unique individuals. Though they do share similarities, they also have many differences.
A study conducted by a team of researchers at the Spanish National Cancer Center in Madrid concluded that, while identical twins are born with the same epigenome, their epigentic profiles begin to diverge as they age. The differences increase as twins live longer and spend more time apart. The scientists offered two theories to explain this phenomenon. First, that epigentic marks are removed randomly as people age. Secondly, environmental influences change the pattern of epigentic marks.
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I’ve always wondered what it would be like to have an identical twin. It seems like a lovely thing to have someone with whom to share genetic and life experience.
Thank you and good luck,
-Your Perfect Woman
December 20th, 2007 at 11:45 pm
I didn’t have the time to delve more into the construct, but i would also think there is a spiritual component that energizes the distinction between two twin-like beings. As each being integrates the yin and yang of human beingness, our grace-filled blessed aspects balanced against our more outrageous, and somewhat fear-soaked, negative impulses, the embodiment (or sometimes disembodiment) of the spirit becomes quite important. It may be (given the most recent brain research) that manifestations of spiritual comprehension and entwinement initiates or enhances changes in the epigenetic and neurogenetic information processes. This certainly needs more study.
Thank you for considering my submission for “your perfect woman,” and for your reply and thought-filled response. I will certainly investigate the revelations some more, and if i have something to add to my model of perfection i will happily share it.
December 30th, 2007 at 12:40 pm
Your perfect woman would be far too skinny and sickly from it to participate in the athletic activities you fantasize about. That’s a BMI under 17, and if you dip under 18.5, you’re underweight.
December 31st, 2007 at 9:51 pm
You know Amanda she has been told that her BMI of 16.1 was too skinny and unhealthy by people who are not actual medical or health fitness professionals. In the last few years the “powers that be” reevaluated the medical data in terms of longevity, overall health, genetic predispositions etc. and determined that indeed a very healthy skinny is preferred (lives longer with less overall health problems–we can reduce our caloric intake by half and still be dramatically healthy) [Their findings appeared the Proceedings of the National Academies of Sciences.].
We are not talking “too skinny and sickly” here, but a very health and athletic version (or have you never seen the top women distance runners?) of a strong woman. My friend just checked in the other day weighing 118 lbs, after a hard free weight workout followed by a five mile run (at 60% race speed). Contrary to your impressionistic views, that is healthy, strong, well nourished, and physically fit. Doctors have told her she is just fine, averaging between 116 and 120 pounds (and still with wonderful curves btw).